"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Truths I've learned.

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- Any woman, even an ugly woman, but especially a cute woman, has male admirers. (More points taken off if she likes said attention or persues it.)

- If/when she loses interest, it can come out of nowhere and she won't change her mind. One sign of weakness and it's as if she never knew you. See the post on here where a guy's mother died of a random illness and the woman dumped him because he was a downer to hang out with.

- If/when she loses interest, even the strongest man can be fragile and end up sounding like an emo or a beginner...depressing...wanting to die...losing meaning in life...doing anything to try to win her back.

-When women fall for a guy, it's completely emotional. For whatever reason (his looks, personality, the way he walks or some stupid thing) she can't get enough of him...but there's no rhyme or reason as to know whether you'll be that guy for a woman. All woman have that idea of their perfect guy and won't budge. You can be dating a woman, and while she's interested enough to date you and be in your presence, she might be waiting for her prince in her mind.

- To sum up, unless a girl is psycho over you and has one-it-is for you, you really don't mean much to her other than a guy to keep around to make her feel wanted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think men would do a lot better if they started behaving like Moe Szyslak.
 

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A bit cynical but does apply to the vast majority of women. Solid advice overall

Hahaha fortunateson why should we behave like Moe Szyslak? He's an AFC, Quagmire would be a much better model

"Here's the condom I told you I put on"
-Quagmire
 

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I actually Vouch this post, because i am believing the stuff you wrote aswel.

- Another thing is, if you leave your girl/she leaves you, she will tend to be much faster "out there" getting a new guy, since she got all of theese admires, that were just waiting for her to become single.

--> And then when the depressed dude wants her back, well, he is not going to.
 
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