Do you know what the tingles are NN?
You start kowtowing, you start ending the tingles. Capiche?
Sorry Could you explain this more?
As a man, you need to lead. Lead her to fame or folly
But as long as you're leading, she will follow
Dudes talk about needing money to get women. Nope, just frame
Dudes act mad when guys with no money pull women. I'd bet they held the frame lol
That's what game is. Tighten up or don't. Nobody cares but you
I can totally understand, but you need to reflect on this before you proceed:
"Look at that bald, overweight guy. How could he have that beautiful woman?"
"Look at that handsome man. How could he be single? Why do his relationships last only 2 or 3 months?"
You can observe this in every long-term relationship (LTR) and/or marriage. The woman often claims she wants the tall, muscular, tattooed guy, but what she really seeks is a combination of:
- Someone who reminds her of her father or brother figure
- Someone capable of confining her in a "world," and when necessary, controlling and manipulating her to shape her thinking, leading her "to fame or folly."
I have seen this many times. I don’t care what people say about a man needing to act "detached" and let her chase him. In my experience, successful relationships often involve a man who is "controlling" in regard to her. He goes out to "take" her and establish his "ownership," rather than giving her the free space and time she needs. Instead, he sets rules—a framework within which she operates.
He builds gates, and she must ask for permission to get the key to open them, then return the key afterward. It’s as if he confines her to a specific world. There may be exceptions, but those men often come across as "close-minded," "arrogant or violent," or "passive-aggressive." When I look around me, these are the common LTRs and "happy" families I see.
On the other hand, I observe very intelligent, open-minded, handsome men—truly high-value men—who give their partners "space," "time," and a "growth mindset" because they live life this way. They are not searching for someone to confine or manipulate; rather, they seek someone to share their experiences with. They maintain an open mind about life, are lifelong learners, and are curious. These men have many hobbies and passions.
Some might argue otherwise, but the relationships of these "handsome men" often fail in favor of those more "arrogant" men mentioned earlier.
the niche where you excel at(i.e. social circle, niche gaming etc)
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