Truth From Solomon

Solomon

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As a man, you need to lead. Lead her to fame or folly

But as long as you're leading, she will follow

Dudes talk about needing money to get women. Nope, just frame

Dudes act mad when guys with no money pull women. I'd bet they held the frame lol

That's what game is. Tighten up or don't. Nobody cares but you
The problem is guys who lack money think it will make up for their lack of game, looks, status or something else. As a guy who use to be broke as a joke I can tell you I was getting more women when I was broke then now, why? cause I had more time!!! I was doing night game 2-4 times a week, doing online game every day. I don't have the time nor the energy to be doing night game 2-4 times a week now (nor would I)sure money changed my options but that's cause it also helped with my social status (social circle)

The reality is that if you're struggling now with women and being social money isn't gonna make you more attractive if you don't have game or understand the niche where you excel at(i.e. social circle, niche gaming etc) A lot of men who think money will change their circumstances don't understand money cause they don't have it

Plain and simple
 

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The problem is guys who lack money think it will make up for their lack of game, looks, status or something else. As a guy who use to be broke as a joke I can tell you I was getting more women when I was broke then now, why? cause I had more time!!! I was doing night game 2-4 times a week, doing online game every day. I don't have the time nor the energy to be doing night game 2-4 times a week now (nor would I)sure money changed my options but that's cause it also helped with my social status (social circle)

The reality is that if you're struggling now with women and being social money isn't gonna make you more attractive if you don't have game or understand the niche where you excel at(i.e. social circle, niche gaming etc) A lot of men who think money will change their circumstances don't understand money cause they don't have it

Plain and simple
The game changes when you start looking old.

I have a young face, but I'm bald and have greys in my beard.

I can't pull college chicks like I once could. It's a sobering reality.

Doesn't scare me, though. I'm not attracted to young women the way I used to be. I honestly prefer older women now. No cope
 

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Do you know what the tingles are NN?

You start kowtowing, you start ending the tingles. Capiche?
Sorry Could you explain this more?

As a man, you need to lead. Lead her to fame or folly

But as long as you're leading, she will follow

Dudes talk about needing money to get women. Nope, just frame

Dudes act mad when guys with no money pull women. I'd bet they held the frame lol

That's what game is. Tighten up or don't. Nobody cares but you
I can totally understand, but you need to reflect on this before you proceed:

"Look at that bald, overweight guy. How could he have that beautiful woman?"
"Look at that handsome man. How could he be single? Why do his relationships last only 2 or 3 months?"

You can observe this in every long-term relationship (LTR) and/or marriage. The woman often claims she wants the tall, muscular, tattooed guy, but what she really seeks is a combination of:

- Someone who reminds her of her father or brother figure
- Someone capable of confining her in a "world," and when necessary, controlling and manipulating her to shape her thinking, leading her "to fame or folly."

I have seen this many times. I don’t care what people say about a man needing to act "detached" and let her chase him. In my experience, successful relationships often involve a man who is "controlling" in regard to her. He goes out to "take" her and establish his "ownership," rather than giving her the free space and time she needs. Instead, he sets rules—a framework within which she operates.

He builds gates, and she must ask for permission to get the key to open them, then return the key afterward. It’s as if he confines her to a specific world. There may be exceptions, but those men often come across as "close-minded," "arrogant or violent," or "passive-aggressive." When I look around me, these are the common LTRs and "happy" families I see.

On the other hand, I observe very intelligent, open-minded, handsome men—truly high-value men—who give their partners "space," "time," and a "growth mindset" because they live life this way. They are not searching for someone to confine or manipulate; rather, they seek someone to share their experiences with. They maintain an open mind about life, are lifelong learners, and are curious. These men have many hobbies and passions.

Some might argue otherwise, but the relationships of these "handsome men" often fail in favor of those more "arrogant" men mentioned earlier.
the niche where you excel at(i.e. social circle, niche gaming etc)
Resources?
 
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