Postmalonelistener
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yeah you take everything they tell you as fact, quit fooling yourself, OLD is all about looks
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Truth about online dating in 2020, thoughts?
- Thread starter Postmalonelistener
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Looks get you in the door but you need game to seal the deal.
diogenes84
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you are both right. But needing game to close the deal on something doesn't change the fact that we all pick someone based on looks first. Why would they be different than us in this respect?
And chuckling a bit at the "how do I know?: They tell me" part. But hey who knows
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DEEZEDBRAH
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OLD is cucked.I just came across this from another site and I was wondering if this guy is onto something. Apparently, in order to get anywhere with Tinder and Bumble, he claims that you gotta pretty much pay for stuff. I wonder if he is just average looking.
The truth about online dating in 2020
As the lockdown continues and the fear of COVID carries over well after the fact, all of us live with the reality that online dating may become one of, if not, the only way to meet our significant …millennialbachelor.com
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Postmalonelistener
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you need to get in the door first though bro....