Fellas, Ive been slowly but surely continuing the transformation of becoming a Don Juan. I realized from my last relationship that I should not have any trust issues with any woman because I realized that as long as I am a challenge, show her romance/affection she will definitely not stray unless she is a straight up ho. I realized that if you are too guarded with your feelings and have too much mistrust in woman, you may prevent yourself from getting hurt, but you won't be happy. Dont' get me wrong, im not saying wear your heart on your sleeve or tell your whole life story. What I mean is that I realized that I should not be afraid of showing her my kindness/affectionate side. One reason I lost my girl is cause I was not willing to open up my heart at all, was hesitant in showing her affection and had too many trust issues.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Trusting a woman
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