Fellas, Ive been slowly but surely continuing the transformation of becoming a Don Juan. I realized from my last relationship that I should not have any trust issues with any woman because I realized that as long as I am a challenge, show her romance/affection she will definitely not stray unless she is a straight up ho. I realized that if you are too guarded with your feelings and have too much mistrust in woman, you may prevent yourself from getting hurt, but you won't be happy. Dont' get me wrong, im not saying wear your heart on your sleeve or tell your whole life story. What I mean is that I realized that I should not be afraid of showing her my kindness/affectionate side. One reason I lost my girl is cause I was not willing to open up my heart at all, was hesitant in showing her affection and had too many trust issues.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Trusting a woman
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