This is obviously the biggest concern. I also feel the same way, because to me, being a challenge seems like it can just get tiring after a while. However, I guess being a challenge is not necessarily not showing a lot of interest, but instead making sure that you are not stopping everything in your life just to be with this girl. If you do that, then you are probably seen as needy and girls hate that.Originally posted by Brak86
yea but im always worried that if i make myself a challenge or refuse to show a lot of interest, the girl will just move on to another guy and i just missed my precious opportunity to bag a girl.