"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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True Rejection

Cheiradawg

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Approaching a random chick and getting rejected isn't that big of a deal. At this stage the game is so shallow anyone who does not have the balls to suck it up if they are rejected shouldn't have a chick.
So what if she rejects you for all you really know she could be a bimbo, lazy, or whatever. At this point she can't tell who you really are so who cares if she rejects you.
What really sucks is true rejection. This is when a girl truly gets to know you and then says in so many words "I'm better than you" and "You aren't good enough for me." When she says it and you know she is right then man that sucks.
So ****off with this "God she is so hot $hit, if she rejects me it will hurt my feelings" crap. That is absolutly nothing. If she rejects you then it doesn't matter. The whole thing will be forgotten by the end of the day so who cares?!?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJohn83

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Thats a damn good way to look at it.

I never thought of it like that. Its not real because she doesnt know jack shyt about me. I like it.
 

Cheiradawg

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Well don't fool yourself man it is real rejection, but it is on a very superifical level. When you CPU a chick she shouldn't be view as anything other than unknown material with potential.
 

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"not real" is a relative term bro. we all know that its still a rejection.

P.S. Nice work contradicting your own post.. keep it up.:rolleyes:
 

congruence

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true rejection is when you fail to constantly improve your game. that's self-rejection.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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