"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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True or False question for the DJ experts:

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Took an HB 9.5 out this weekend and had an awesome first date. We talked today and she mentioned how much fun she had, and we confirmed plans for a second date this weekend.

Obviously there has to be some level of interest there. TRUE or FALSE:

Assuming all cards are played right, I can get this girl to fall for me now that I have confirmed interest.

I know that most guys (including myself) rarely play all their cards right, but basically what I'm asking here is, is getting the initial interest the most important part of it all?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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False. The most important part of all is KEEPING that interest. If you only are creating initial interest and then acting in a way that breaks the tension, interest will fade.
 
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Everything is interesting when it's new. You'll want to maintain or raise that interest level down the road.

But hey...if she's digging you already, then just be smart and keep up the good work.
 
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YOU ALREADY GOT HER INITIAL INTEREST from your first interaction. Anytime you play the dancing monkey (entertain for her attention) you stand the risk of the "NOVELTY EFFECT" wearing thin.

When a trust, safe, familiar bond is formed.......boredom tends to settle in AFTER the honeymoon phase. Real realtionships begin AFTER you have had sex a few times.

The cat string theory is flawed-it has a shelf life of a few moments. Much like anything in life, once the initial interest is maximized people lose interest.
They are like Okay cool, but I already seen that.........wat else you got.

The Party has to end sometime people, leave on a high note.........but remember this old cliche`WANTING IS OFTEN MORE APPEALING THAN HAVING
 
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rocky what is a good way not to break that tension. you got any examples. thanks man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont understand the issue.

I could look at a girl on the street who's eyeing me up and say 'i could get this girl to fall for me', and it would be true.

In a way, she has already fallen for you, since she had so much fun and is wanting another date.

Id say stop asking yourself strange questions and continue acting like a badass and get into her pants as soon as possible.

ps. this is prime sh-t test time. Shes going to be throwing everything and judging every move like crazy. Be strong.
 
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