"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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True nature of the dynamics between men vs women

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This thread is for men who are in a relationship, of any kind, with their women.

Especially if you're not "unplugged" aka still having the blue pill mindset.

Now I can safely say that the dynamics between men vs women is a CONSTANT STRUGGLE between the seemingly endless EXPECTATION & NEEDS of the women VERSUS the obviously limited ability to MEET those NEEDS of the men.

If the men are lucky enough to be able to keep MEETING their women's NEEDS, then we have the so-called "HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS".

But, for whatever the fvck reasons, if the guys are unable to meet those needs anymore, then it's almost 100% chance that he's going to get dumped / divorce raped / you name it... by their women.

So, to sum it up, it's the very nature of the dynamics between men vs women. And as you can see, there's no such thing as "love" (as in unconditional love) in between. And to this day I still don't understand why kids, especially male ones, are not taught about this at schools.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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