"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True nature of the dynamics between men vs women

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This thread is for men who are in a relationship, of any kind, with their women.

Especially if you're not "unplugged" aka still having the blue pill mindset.

Now I can safely say that the dynamics between men vs women is a CONSTANT STRUGGLE between the seemingly endless EXPECTATION & NEEDS of the women VERSUS the obviously limited ability to MEET those NEEDS of the men.

If the men are lucky enough to be able to keep MEETING their women's NEEDS, then we have the so-called "HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS".

But, for whatever the fvck reasons, if the guys are unable to meet those needs anymore, then it's almost 100% chance that he's going to get dumped / divorce raped / you name it... by their women.

So, to sum it up, it's the very nature of the dynamics between men vs women. And as you can see, there's no such thing as "love" (as in unconditional love) in between. And to this day I still don't understand why kids, especially male ones, are not taught about this at schools.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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