"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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True Love?????????????

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

The weird thing is that there is this gut feeling that she doesn't quite love me.
No she "loves" you alright. She loves you just as much as the other guy/s who bash her clam into chowder when your not around.

3 things you should probably know by now:

* Chicks are emotionally driven which means the word "love" when spoken by a chick is meaningless to you the man. She may very well "love" you when she says it but in the same breath she will love the chocolate cake she binges on the next day or the ONS who picks her up , takes her home and buries her face in his pillow equally.

* LDR's are a joke, and there is no such thing as "relationship". Unless shes fat/ugly or socially inept someone else is nailing her if your not.

* Always trust your gut.
 

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WELL

Say tell her i love her a lot of time too.
and sometimes i give a messages in myspace my
"hey baby <MMMWWAAAHHH>"
 
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