"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I live in an area where it’s hard to come by a HB7, let alone a true HB10. The women here are just dogmeat. Anyway, there’s a true HB10 that works at a local restaurant. I found out she’s the daughter in a family I used to be very close with. Her father coached me in little league and I grew up with her brother who’s my age.

Not surprisingly, she has a bf. I’m trying to just form a stable of attractive female friends so when they become available, I’m first in line (I’m very good at being a flirty friend) but I’m not sure how to go about it with this girl.

The one thing I have going against me is that I was online friends with this obese girl that’s good friends with her, and she has a lot, I mean a lot of info on me. She might even make **** up just to keep me away from her. (This is why I haven’t tried to add the HB on facebook yet.) On the other hand, I met the obese girl on plentyoffish, so I’m sure she wouldn’t want that info being dispersed to her friends.

Fattie aside, what’s the best way of just slowly acquainting myself with her? This is how I got my HB ex anyway…by just timing the day of her breakup and then being the first in line.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ

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lol this is stupid.

Why do you care so much about trying to befriend this hottie? You sound like all her other 100000 afc orbiters (wait until she breaks up with bf, then i pounce her). Seriously life is too short to care about menial sh1t like this. If she becomes single, then go and approach her. Don't try and befriend her like a pvssy. Spin more plates.
 

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or game her like normal, dont be a pvss about the bf. Game her, if she mentions having a bf, be like oh thats cool good thing were just friends... continue gaming.
 

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CaptainJ said:
lol this is stupid.

Why do you care so much about trying to befriend this hottie? You sound like all her other 100000 afc orbiters (wait until she breaks up with bf, then i pounce her). Seriously life is too short to care about menial sh1t like this. If she becomes single, then go and approach her. Don't try and befriend her like a pvssy. Spin more plates.
This sounds like KJing to me, and you didn't read the part where I said that I live in dogmeat (ugly women) central.
 

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marshalltucker said:
This sounds like KJing to me, and you didn't read the part where I said that I live in dogmeat (ugly women) central.
Really? Because your post screams of desperation to me. If women are ugly, then you are probably looking in the wrong places, or maybe you should move. Don't focus such effort on one girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not looking to make her my girlfriend. I'm interested in having sex with hot women (including her) but there aren't many around.
 

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I'm looking to meet women in the 22-32 range. The only bars here are white trash bars like in the movie Roadhouse with Patrick Swayze.

And no, I'm not looking to make excuses. I'm going on vacation for a week and a half to sarge. But I would like a FB locally.
 

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I would encourage the OP to spend his time doing everything he can to get out of that town rather than spending time hustling the ugly women there or pining for the one pretty girl within 50 miles.
 

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Cmon there can't be that many ugly girls. Where do you live, Zimbambwe? I'm sure there are decent girls around, just keep looking around.

That being said, never wait for a girl to break up with her her boyfriend. That's as AFCish as you can get. Instead of waiting around for you should be sarging in the field and getting better.

Also do you even know this girl? I know a lot of HB10's that are dumb as shyt or have no personality. I'm sorry that just kills it for me no matter how hot they are.

In fact, I've boned HB10's that are just decent in bed. I effed HB7's that are effin awesome in bed. I'll take that hb 7 anyday over a dead fish.

Basically what I am trying to say is don't waste your time waiting for this girl you'll be missing out on a whole lot of opportunities out there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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