"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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True HB10

marshalltucker

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I live in an area where it’s hard to come by a HB7, let alone a true HB10. The women here are just dogmeat. Anyway, there’s a true HB10 that works at a local restaurant. I found out she’s the daughter in a family I used to be very close with. Her father coached me in little league and I grew up with her brother who’s my age.

Not surprisingly, she has a bf. I’m trying to just form a stable of attractive female friends so when they become available, I’m first in line (I’m very good at being a flirty friend) but I’m not sure how to go about it with this girl.

The one thing I have going against me is that I was online friends with this obese girl that’s good friends with her, and she has a lot, I mean a lot of info on me. She might even make **** up just to keep me away from her. (This is why I haven’t tried to add the HB on facebook yet.) On the other hand, I met the obese girl on plentyoffish, so I’m sure she wouldn’t want that info being dispersed to her friends.

Fattie aside, what’s the best way of just slowly acquainting myself with her? This is how I got my HB ex anyway…by just timing the day of her breakup and then being the first in line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptainJ

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lol this is stupid.

Why do you care so much about trying to befriend this hottie? You sound like all her other 100000 afc orbiters (wait until she breaks up with bf, then i pounce her). Seriously life is too short to care about menial sh1t like this. If she becomes single, then go and approach her. Don't try and befriend her like a pvssy. Spin more plates.
 

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or game her like normal, dont be a pvss about the bf. Game her, if she mentions having a bf, be like oh thats cool good thing were just friends... continue gaming.
 

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CaptainJ said:
lol this is stupid.

Why do you care so much about trying to befriend this hottie? You sound like all her other 100000 afc orbiters (wait until she breaks up with bf, then i pounce her). Seriously life is too short to care about menial sh1t like this. If she becomes single, then go and approach her. Don't try and befriend her like a pvssy. Spin more plates.
This sounds like KJing to me, and you didn't read the part where I said that I live in dogmeat (ugly women) central.
 

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marshalltucker said:
This sounds like KJing to me, and you didn't read the part where I said that I live in dogmeat (ugly women) central.
Really? Because your post screams of desperation to me. If women are ugly, then you are probably looking in the wrong places, or maybe you should move. Don't focus such effort on one girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marshalltucker

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I'm not looking to make her my girlfriend. I'm interested in having sex with hot women (including her) but there aren't many around.
 

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I'm looking to meet women in the 22-32 range. The only bars here are white trash bars like in the movie Roadhouse with Patrick Swayze.

And no, I'm not looking to make excuses. I'm going on vacation for a week and a half to sarge. But I would like a FB locally.
 

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I would encourage the OP to spend his time doing everything he can to get out of that town rather than spending time hustling the ugly women there or pining for the one pretty girl within 50 miles.
 

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Cmon there can't be that many ugly girls. Where do you live, Zimbambwe? I'm sure there are decent girls around, just keep looking around.

That being said, never wait for a girl to break up with her her boyfriend. That's as AFCish as you can get. Instead of waiting around for you should be sarging in the field and getting better.

Also do you even know this girl? I know a lot of HB10's that are dumb as shyt or have no personality. I'm sorry that just kills it for me no matter how hot they are.

In fact, I've boned HB10's that are just decent in bed. I effed HB7's that are effin awesome in bed. I'll take that hb 7 anyday over a dead fish.

Basically what I am trying to say is don't waste your time waiting for this girl you'll be missing out on a whole lot of opportunities out there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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