"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lordlaxative

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Okay... A lot of people I know use instant messenger. Some get on rarely, and some at every open opportunity. Personally, I don't ever use IM (to me it seems like you have no life). But I would like to get some true DJs' thoughts on the matter. Help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Do what you want.

THAT is what a DJ would do. If he feels like chatting on AIM, he does it. Personaly I don't use it often though.
 
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Only IM to discuss meeting in person - kissing over the computer doesn't have the same affect!!!!
 
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If you already got some rapport with this chick (as inn you've gotten far with her) and you are confident inn your attraction IM is all good!
 
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The purpose of this site is NOT to train a generation of men to think, look, and act the same. Learn to make your own decisions and DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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