"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lordlaxative

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Okay... A lot of people I know use instant messenger. Some get on rarely, and some at every open opportunity. Personally, I don't ever use IM (to me it seems like you have no life). But I would like to get some true DJs' thoughts on the matter. Help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Do what you want.

THAT is what a DJ would do. If he feels like chatting on AIM, he does it. Personaly I don't use it often though.
 
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Only IM to discuss meeting in person - kissing over the computer doesn't have the same affect!!!!
 
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Kineti[C]harm

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If you already got some rapport with this chick (as inn you've gotten far with her) and you are confident inn your attraction IM is all good!
 
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The purpose of this site is NOT to train a generation of men to think, look, and act the same. Learn to make your own decisions and DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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