"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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True Confidence

IndianaJoneS

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When you are REALLY confident about yourself,

you need no:

rules
knowledge about attraction between men and women
pickup lines
"special" behaviour
NLP
any tricks to create attraction

Because you are ok the way you are. There is nothing to remove, nothing to add and nothing to hide.

This should be your primary goal. Find your "true self" and learn to become the best friend of yours.

"As long as you are insecure about yourself, ALL YOUR EFFORTS WILL BE FUTILE".

Good luck to all of you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Catamo

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Yea this guys completely right. Sorry to those of you who are writing all these dating tips down in your notebooks - they wont get you very far at all. Seriously, you have to be completely reliant on yourself, or your just gonna come off as a sketchy awkward character.
 

DavenJuan

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IndianaJoneS said:
When you are REALLY confident about yourself,

you need no:

rules
knowledge about attraction between men and women
pickup lines
"special" behaviour
NLP
any tricks to create attraction

Because you are ok the way you are. There is nothing to remove, nothing to add and nothing to hide.

This should be your primary goal. Find your "true self" and learn to become the best friend of yours.

"As long as you are insecure about yourself, ALL YOUR EFFORTS WILL BE FUTILE".

Good luck to all of you.
i agree to a point... you should be completely confident in your self and also your abilities. However there should ALWAYS be something to add.

I am strongly confident in myself, however i come to theses forums for self improvement, experiences, and self progression.

Knowledge to better myself is something i always strive for. Being "complacant" i feel is doom.
 

oOh Nasty

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i haven't posted in years, but i had to log on just to say that, this is probably the best thing posted in the tips section within the past few months.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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