"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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True Confidence

IndianaJoneS

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When you are REALLY confident about yourself,

you need no:

rules
knowledge about attraction between men and women
pickup lines
"special" behaviour
NLP
any tricks to create attraction

Because you are ok the way you are. There is nothing to remove, nothing to add and nothing to hide.

This should be your primary goal. Find your "true self" and learn to become the best friend of yours.

"As long as you are insecure about yourself, ALL YOUR EFFORTS WILL BE FUTILE".

Good luck to all of you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Catamo

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Yea this guys completely right. Sorry to those of you who are writing all these dating tips down in your notebooks - they wont get you very far at all. Seriously, you have to be completely reliant on yourself, or your just gonna come off as a sketchy awkward character.
 

DavenJuan

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IndianaJoneS said:
When you are REALLY confident about yourself,

you need no:

rules
knowledge about attraction between men and women
pickup lines
"special" behaviour
NLP
any tricks to create attraction

Because you are ok the way you are. There is nothing to remove, nothing to add and nothing to hide.

This should be your primary goal. Find your "true self" and learn to become the best friend of yours.

"As long as you are insecure about yourself, ALL YOUR EFFORTS WILL BE FUTILE".

Good luck to all of you.
i agree to a point... you should be completely confident in your self and also your abilities. However there should ALWAYS be something to add.

I am strongly confident in myself, however i come to theses forums for self improvement, experiences, and self progression.

Knowledge to better myself is something i always strive for. Being "complacant" i feel is doom.
 

oOh Nasty

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i haven't posted in years, but i had to log on just to say that, this is probably the best thing posted in the tips section within the past few months.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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