Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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NSUballer said:I find the problem with being a single guy who is more attractive than 90-95% of other guys is that most women are intimidated by you and your mere presence. Im in that same boat and have witnessed this countless times. Like when you talk to a girl thats maybe a 7 or 8 and I will talk to her just to be social(and practice) and she usually seems nervous like shes thinking "why is he talking to me?" kind of thing.
So it happens to you, too, huh? I can usually hold down several women at one time when talking, and get plenty of IOIs. But there are times when I'm talking to some HB and she'll begin to act nervous avoiding eye contact. One HB8 likes to pull her sleeves over her hands then hold her hand a few inches from her mouth when she talks to me (and always in a really quiet voice, too). When women do things like this sometimes it can be fun but at other times I don't think that I'm being taken all that seriously by them. And there was one who used to treat me like crap if I happened to so much walk past her. She was the vice president of our club. She was really outgoing with other people but she'd clam up and mummble if I happened to sit down next to her. Or she'd start rambling on about something pretending like she didn't notice me. For a while I thought that she really couldn't stand me until I caught her looking at me when she didn't think I was watching her. And one time she came in wearing this miniskirt and fishnet stockings and I brushed against her for a reaction. And she blushed and meekly excused herself to me. Just before the end of the semester she finally mustered up the courage to talk to me. I came in, smiled to her to see what would happen. She approached and asked me if I'd like some cookies she had brought with her. I took them, she was so quiet and wouldn't say anything else. She's pretty but also incredibly shy. I was also trying to spin a friend of her's at the time so shy girl was not number one for me. But she graduated after that and I haven't seen her since. She was acting that way because she was guarding her feelings but I wish that she had been more comfortable around me.
It cuts both ways, actually. I like it when women are sexually tense but it sometimes makes me uncomfortable if they are so nervous that they can't look me in the eye or act cold or mean towards me as a front to hide their insecurity that I might be a player (which I'm not). And like I've said when some pee-ons also spread the junk about that there are women who will believe it anyway.
But I'm glad to be considered attractive, and I'll never short change myself for anything.