"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trouble

addidasss

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has anyone broke up with their gf, then later to find that No pvssy is better than her? If so, then how long? or is it forever!

i know you call me afc, but i have good girls but when it comes to sex, i'd still prefer my x. she's still the best in that department. so help me. i don't want to get stuck in this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keeper

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My ex was the god damn best kisser on the planet.

But my new girl has the best damn tits I've ever seen.

Instead of focussing on the negative, look to what's better and more positive about these girls. :)
 

Tomatoes

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My ex was amazing in bed. I have had equally good sex with other girls but not as often to ratio. Basically my philosophy on this one is that i will keep looking. But like the above post says. Sex is not everything. Focus on the positives of new girls and the negatives of your ex. My ex was poor at bl0wj0bs. I have since met girls who are much better. So your options are either look for + and - or just keep looking!
 
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