"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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addidasss

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has anyone broke up with their gf, then later to find that No pvssy is better than her? If so, then how long? or is it forever!

i know you call me afc, but i have good girls but when it comes to sex, i'd still prefer my x. she's still the best in that department. so help me. i don't want to get stuck in this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keeper

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My ex was the god damn best kisser on the planet.

But my new girl has the best damn tits I've ever seen.

Instead of focussing on the negative, look to what's better and more positive about these girls. :)
 

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My ex was amazing in bed. I have had equally good sex with other girls but not as often to ratio. Basically my philosophy on this one is that i will keep looking. But like the above post says. Sex is not everything. Focus on the positives of new girls and the negatives of your ex. My ex was poor at bl0wj0bs. I have since met girls who are much better. So your options are either look for + and - or just keep looking!
 
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