"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trouble with starting and lasting conversation

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I know this is i site to get women, but i have a bigger issue. I have a really difficult time finding friends. I am from college and I not ugly. I'm just like an every person if all you DJ understand what i mean.

I cant start and keep conversations going. maybe becuz i dont talk a lot. Sometimes when i make some friends, i was afraid that they'll find out i dont have much friends and they'll think im a loser, which i know im not. Also, i dont know when is the best time and place to find some friends.

Any help or suggestions? I really want to change.
 

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Honestly... guys don't care how many friends you have. If you run into some dude, and there's nothing to talk about so be it. Maybe next time you'll both be interested in some girl's fake titties. um.. Talk about topics you're interested in. In general, don't worry about what they think of you. You don't need approval from anyone.

Alright... Now where to meet new friends: your classes, campus, clubs, fraternity's, work, friends of friends (big one). Just say what's up, ask questions, and don't be afraid to say whatever.
 
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Buddy,

I know where you coming from. Hey lets face it in reality lots of people have aquitances, very few people have true friends they can rely on, maybe one or two at the most. So I really think your in the same boat as everyone else.

Who really cares what they think ?. Sometimes it worth rehearsing in your mind a set of open ended questions so when you do meet someone you know what to say. Do a search on www.google.com for the words "rapport" and "open ended questions". Alot of the information is already on the internet and books can be rather pricey.

Anyway you got some mates here on the Don Juan discussion forum so you got nothing to be concerned about. ;)


Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
I know this is i site to get women, but i have a bigger issue. I have a really difficult time finding friends. I am from college and I not ugly. I'm just like an every person if all you DJ understand what i mean.

I cant start and keep conversations going. maybe becuz i dont talk a lot. Sometimes when i make some friends, i was afraid that they'll find out i dont have much friends and they'll think im a loser, which i know im not. Also, i dont know when is the best time and place to find some friends.

Any help or suggestions? I really want to change.
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