Trouble with keeping this relationship fun

[noodle]

OK let me start from the begining when i met this girl.
When we were in the same class her and I. We would always tease each other, and at the time she wasn't very pretty. As time progressed and she got more style, I got more attractive to her. I would still tease her and all that sort of things. She would want a hug from me everyday after school, but I would make it a challenge for her everytime. Our relationship was really fun!

Now we just started dating, but for some reason, our relationship has lost it's spark and fun. How could i make this more fun and exciting for the both of us? She doesn't tease me anymore or anything, but i try to do it to her sometimes. We haven't even gone on a date yet(too busy) but we have kissed a couple of times already. Oh and she always wants to hang out with me. She always asks if i'm avaible or not.

Does this mean i'm doing the right thing? If not, how can i make this relationship more fun and exciting for the both of us?

Oh and another thing, why can't i be funny all the time? I've noticed that I'm only funny when i get pumped up and that sort of thing.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

 

[Sean O]

How long have you known her for?

 

[noodle]

How long have you known her for?

I've known her for about a year and a half. But we recently started being bf, and gf a a week and a half ago.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

yea i just got my first girl 2 weeks ago. Do you know how to keep it fun? dont always be avaliable, dont go out of your way to see her and most importantly, take her on interesting dates, this doesn't mean you have to spend money, just take her out once every two weeks and if you can, once a week. For e.g, when i was asking my gf to be my gf, i took her to the cinema, and then a walk by the river and asked her out there. The next wednsday i took her dancing, then i cooled things off for a bit just to make sure she doesnt think i am needy. Then this friday she came around mine and we hanged and chilled for 5 hours. Next sat i am giving her a suprise, she loves jazz and pizza, so i said to her be free next sat and i am going to take her to a resturant with live jazz(she doesn't know yet).
Its things like this that keeps a relationship fun, you must know what she like and make time for her, then suprise her.

 

[noodle]

yea i just got my first girl 2 weeks ago. Do you know how to keep it fun? dont always be avaliable, dont go out of your way to see her and most importantly, take her on interesting dates, this doesn't mean you have to spend money, just take her out once every two weeks and if you can, once a week. For e.g, when i was asking my gf to be my gf, i took her to the cinema, and then a walk by the river and asked her out there. The next wednsday i took her dancing, then i cooled things off for a bit just to make sure she doesnt think i am needy. Then this friday she came around mine and we hanged and chilled for 5 hours. Next sat i am giving her a suprise, she loves jazz and pizza, so i said to her be free next sat and i am going to take her to a resturant with live jazz(she doesn't know yet).
Its things like this that keeps a relationship fun, you must know what she like and make time for her, then suprise her.

Good advice. I will use your advice and be unpredictable with her. I just gotta learn more about her first. Thanks man.

But i'm only 14, any ideas where i should take her on the first date?

Any other advice would be appreciated also.

 

[Raikojo17]

try takin her to the mall. it's fun an there's alot of stuff to do. my an a girl went there one time and we had alot of fun.