"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble Getting Over Ex GF

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AJTD

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Hi guys
I am suppose to go out on a date this Thursday with a girl that lives in the same town as my ex gf. The problem I am having is that I have not gotten over my ex gf yet. We broke up in March of this year. Every time I think about this date and where she lives I think about my ex. What can I do? Do I just blow this date off and work on my issues or just go ahead and go on the date?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is just normal!

i had the same problem, in january. i met another woman and it was somehow feeling different. it was unusual to meet a strange woman,to see another female face,where you once saw the fac of your ex gf. just continue to meet different woman,you will get used to it and the more often you meet other woman,the better you will feel.trust me!

just don't sit there and fall in self pitty etc.

go out and move it! she is past and gone,there are others waiting for you. :up:
 
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Do not blow off the date. The only way to get over your ex is by seeing other women. Or keeping busy with things you like doing to take your mind off it. Yeah, it sucks but, you must over come it!
 
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