"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Trouble Getting Over Ex GF

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Hi guys
I am suppose to go out on a date this Thursday with a girl that lives in the same town as my ex gf. The problem I am having is that I have not gotten over my ex gf yet. We broke up in March of this year. Every time I think about this date and where she lives I think about my ex. What can I do? Do I just blow this date off and work on my issues or just go ahead and go on the date?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this is just normal!

i had the same problem, in january. i met another woman and it was somehow feeling different. it was unusual to meet a strange woman,to see another female face,where you once saw the fac of your ex gf. just continue to meet different woman,you will get used to it and the more often you meet other woman,the better you will feel.trust me!

just don't sit there and fall in self pitty etc.

go out and move it! she is past and gone,there are others waiting for you. :up:
 
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Do not blow off the date. The only way to get over your ex is by seeing other women. Or keeping busy with things you like doing to take your mind off it. Yeah, it sucks but, you must over come it!
 
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