"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trouble forgetting about my ex

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scoopshank

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Lostsoul85 said:
It's not so much what you say but it's more what are you feeling internally before you send her a message.

How are you triggered when you receive that msg from her.
What emotions arise?

This is something you need to sit with

You come from a good place internally than intuition will let you know when to act/not to act/what to say

This is not a mind thing or a tactic.It's a way of being.

Stop listening to your brain and listen to your intuition.
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yeah imo as things are currently, it translates to unneeded drama.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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scoopshank said:
Date went well This is your perception... Spent all day together. Why are you spending this much time with a chicked that you dumped? Did you atleast get a hand job or a bj? Next day got a text from her saying she'd love to see me every so often had a good time and it'd be cool to be friends Sounded sincere to you....AWW she used L word but it's just manipulation to keep you as an orbiter.

Move on already dude, read the bible!
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Wait a sec, did he just call out every Dj on here and then come back with his tail between his legs wanting more advice? hahahahahahahah. funiest sh1t ive read in a while. And this kid still wants her back
 
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GJ a drink from the poisonous well tastes good doesnt it but I really doubt you can hold your liquor ;]
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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