"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Trouble forgetting about my ex

scoopshank

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Lostsoul85 said:
It's not so much what you say but it's more what are you feeling internally before you send her a message.

How are you triggered when you receive that msg from her.
What emotions arise?

This is something you need to sit with

You come from a good place internally than intuition will let you know when to act/not to act/what to say

This is not a mind thing or a tactic.It's a way of being.

Stop listening to your brain and listen to your intuition.
yeah imo as things are currently, it translates to unneeded drama.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hockeyfreak79

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scoopshank said:
Date went well This is your perception... Spent all day together. Why are you spending this much time with a chicked that you dumped? Did you atleast get a hand job or a bj? Next day got a text from her saying she'd love to see me every so often had a good time and it'd be cool to be friends Sounded sincere to you....AWW she used L word but it's just manipulation to keep you as an orbiter.

Move on already dude, read the bible!
 

bootypirate250

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Wait a sec, did he just call out every Dj on here and then come back with his tail between his legs wanting more advice? hahahahahahahah. funiest sh1t ive read in a while. And this kid still wants her back
 

BrainDamage92

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GJ a drink from the poisonous well tastes good doesnt it but I really doubt you can hold your liquor ;]
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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