"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Troll list who need to be IP banned.

Bumsniff

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We need a thread with a list of trolls who need to be banned for their own good.
toast321
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FairShake

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I kind of like Toast321, I just wish he would limit his topics to one a day as a busy Israeli of African descent should.
 

Scars

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Noted.

Me and the other moderators are working on cleaning things up.

Unfortunately, only Allen has the power to ban (as far as I know.) So all bans must go through him.

He will be notified and hopefully you will start seeing changes soon.

-Scars
 

gspshields2

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Scars said:
Noted.

Me and the other moderators are working on cleaning things up.

Unfortunately, only Allen has the power to ban (as far as I know.) So all bans must go through him.

He will be notified and hopefully you will start seeing changes soon.

-Scars

Im not trolling though.


For what reason should I be banned, none of my topics were locked.
 

Quiksilver

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Scars said:
Noted.

Me and the other moderators are working on cleaning things up.

Unfortunately, only Allen has the power to ban (as far as I know.) So all bans must go through him.

He will be notified and hopefully you will start seeing changes soon.

-Scars
I believe there are a few mods who have the ability to ban.

However, posting members names here whom you do not like--for whatever reason--will result in some stiff penalties. (Take that as a friendly caution).

If you take issue with any member--troll or otherwise--then send a PM to a Mod or Report a post.

Spammers get nuked on sight, and trolls who receive numerous Reports/PMs get surgically removed from the forum.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gspshields2

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Quiksilver said:
I believe there are a few mods who have the ability to ban.

However, posting members names here whom you do not like--for whatever reason--will result in some stiff penalties. (Take that as a friendly caution).

If you take issue with any member--troll or otherwise--then send a PM to a Mod or Report a post.

Spammers get nuked on sight, and trolls who receive numerous Reports/PMs get surgically removed from the forum.

Am I going to be banned? I have had none of my topics shutdown, I don't want to be banned, this site is very helpful to me.

Please tell me what I can do not to be banned.

Thanks.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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Scars said:
Noted.

Me and the other moderators are working on cleaning things up.

Unfortunately, only Allen has the power to ban (as far as I know.) So all bans must go through him.

He will be notified and hopefully you will start seeing changes soon.

-Scars

Thanks, man.

I don't mind the occasional joker, but it's been getting out of hand lately.
 

Scars

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Gsp I am not singling you out. But I myself have seen a troll problem. Like I said, Allen will be made aware of this soon. If you don't want to be banned, then post things relevant to the topic. Try to contribute to the community.

-Scars
 

Iceberg

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Scars said:
Gsp I am not singling you out. But I myself have seen a troll problem. Like I said, Allen will be made aware of this soon. If you don't want to be banned, then post things relevant to the topic. Try to contribute to the community.

-Scars

Some of his more recent threads are "Aderol game" and a thread about "Ferrari Game." I think it's safe to single him out.

Thanks for your effort to clean things up though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Toast321

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Ban me?

DENY ME?

DENY MY RIGHT TO EXIST?

My friend...as an Israeli of African descent....well....quite frankly it's NOTHING I haven't seen before....
 

Quiksilver

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Scars said:
Gsp I am not singling you out. But I myself have seen a troll problem. Like I said, Allen will be made aware of this soon. If you don't want to be banned, then post things relevant to the topic. Try to contribute to the community.

-Scars
Eh, I haven't contributed much to the community in years!

Please don't bane me. :)
 

Bumsniff

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I'll repeat it: GSPSheilds2 needs to get IP banned permanently.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamTheHobit

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Ban samthehobit.
Lol just kidding but the troll are out of hand here lately.
 
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