"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tried online dating, but girls are boring as hell/not interested

jericg

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So I've recently tried online dating and am using this Meet me app where I can get to meet people/girls nearby. I'm currently 18 btw. I messaged some hot girls nearby, usually starting with this funny pick up line that I got from reddit:
"Hey girl, are you Google? Cuz you've got everything I'm searching for."
Assuming that some of the accounts were inactive, many surprisingly responded back. I chatted with some, trynna find shared interest in music, hobbies, etc. But Overall, the girls just seemed really boring, or were just uninterested. They would mostly respond with "yeah", " OK", yes or no, "idk". I'm not the most attractive guy, and I understood that online dating was one-sided. I am also not very good through texting/messaging. I guess what I want to ask is: How do you get better at online dating/texting?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starwolf

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You workout like a beast for 2 years.. then come back... upload a profile pic of your smug smile and your ripped muscular physique. and just txt "hey cutey, wanna feel these abs?"

Thats the only way it works online. ;)
 

SummerNight

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I somewhat agree with the two posters above but at the same time I don't also. Yes, online game needs a really good profile pic. Do you need to look like a Ronaldo to do it? No. What you need is a very good quality photo (like made in a studio) that compliments you in the best way. Also, it's really important to have the right "mood" in your face.

Try to have a picture with warm eyes and a look that is saying: "you little girl, I'm gonna rock your world and you are gonna love it".

The next step is harder to answer in short because online game in itself can ill a book.

What you want to do with online game is to get the girl offline as fast as possible. If you can't get a meeting then get her on the phone and then try to get a meeting.

You need to be witty to stand out in the beginning. Teasing works great. The more out of the box (not your standard questions and opinions about music etc) the better.

You have to realize that these girls get hundreds of messages per day. You don't want to become one of her gay pen buddy.
 

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This wouldn't be the case if you were a male model.

Women will show interest to a man who is attractive.

Case closed.
 

adamwalkner

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Hello all newbies, how are you all. I am Prince Charming. Nice to meet all of you. I am an Artist. I love to meet new people as well as making new friends. I like to watch new Hollywood Movies as well as Bollywood Movies and want to know about them as more as possible. I made a Website for this task and i want to share it with all of you. So if you really wan to know my thinking about tried Online Dating, but Girls are Boring as Hell / not interested, then i will tell you that i do not take interest in this Online Dating even in Live Dating with any Girl. Because i hate this Relationship as well as Girls. So i do not want give any suggestion about this matter.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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