"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tried online dating, but girls are boring as hell/not interested

jericg

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So I've recently tried online dating and am using this Meet me app where I can get to meet people/girls nearby. I'm currently 18 btw. I messaged some hot girls nearby, usually starting with this funny pick up line that I got from reddit:
"Hey girl, are you Google? Cuz you've got everything I'm searching for."
Assuming that some of the accounts were inactive, many surprisingly responded back. I chatted with some, trynna find shared interest in music, hobbies, etc. But Overall, the girls just seemed really boring, or were just uninterested. They would mostly respond with "yeah", " OK", yes or no, "idk". I'm not the most attractive guy, and I understood that online dating was one-sided. I am also not very good through texting/messaging. I guess what I want to ask is: How do you get better at online dating/texting?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Starwolf

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You workout like a beast for 2 years.. then come back... upload a profile pic of your smug smile and your ripped muscular physique. and just txt "hey cutey, wanna feel these abs?"

Thats the only way it works online. ;)
 

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I somewhat agree with the two posters above but at the same time I don't also. Yes, online game needs a really good profile pic. Do you need to look like a Ronaldo to do it? No. What you need is a very good quality photo (like made in a studio) that compliments you in the best way. Also, it's really important to have the right "mood" in your face.

Try to have a picture with warm eyes and a look that is saying: "you little girl, I'm gonna rock your world and you are gonna love it".

The next step is harder to answer in short because online game in itself can ill a book.

What you want to do with online game is to get the girl offline as fast as possible. If you can't get a meeting then get her on the phone and then try to get a meeting.

You need to be witty to stand out in the beginning. Teasing works great. The more out of the box (not your standard questions and opinions about music etc) the better.

You have to realize that these girls get hundreds of messages per day. You don't want to become one of her gay pen buddy.
 

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This wouldn't be the case if you were a male model.

Women will show interest to a man who is attractive.

Case closed.
 

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Hello all newbies, how are you all. I am Prince Charming. Nice to meet all of you. I am an Artist. I love to meet new people as well as making new friends. I like to watch new Hollywood Movies as well as Bollywood Movies and want to know about them as more as possible. I made a Website for this task and i want to share it with all of you. So if you really wan to know my thinking about tried Online Dating, but Girls are Boring as Hell / not interested, then i will tell you that i do not take interest in this Online Dating even in Live Dating with any Girl. Because i hate this Relationship as well as Girls. So i do not want give any suggestion about this matter.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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