Tricky Tricky, please help

[Troubles]

Tricky Tricky

Hi, again everyone !
I met this girl in my work, she is one of the most beautiful girl that I ever know. I didn't talk to her much, but we talk I always being ****y funny, and we flirt a lot and she keep checking my a$$....
I know that she likes me.

She is a jealous woman, as I not only flirt with her, I also flirt with other woman in the office, several time she just got a bit angry and ran away...And I just leave her alone...So, maybe she think that I am a player, which she is not happy about...

Now what happen is, she went away for a few days, and there is rumor(generated from his ex's friends) that someone saw me gone out with another woman for one night stand in a club while she is away, which is untrue. And she and all of her friends (females) are hated me now (Not even talk or look at me). I don't want to go and explain the whole thing that 'this is just a trap, you ex just to want you back', as it's makes me look stupid.

She bought a mobile resently, but I don't think she'll give her number to me, now...

What should I do ? Please give me suggestions. Thanks.

 

[Tails]

show her your a$$.

 

[Troubles]

She's not even looking anymore.....

 

[Tails]

well don't just sit there letting everyone think it's true ya moron! if you really like her, approach her and tell her the truth.

say: "look, there's some rumors going on about me and i know it's effecting us, but it's all lies. i don't have to apologize to you or anyone because it's not true. that's all i can say. i enjoy talking to you and i like you, but if you don't believe me, then that's your problem and i can't do anything about it."

just tell her the truth bro. it's not true right? so tell her!

 

[Austin Allegro]

Don't worry about it. Don't worry about any stupid rumours that circulate about your sex life.

This happened all the time around some men I knew when I worked in a big corporation, and you know what - it only made them MORE popular with the women because it gave them a hint of 'badness'.

So just chill out and go for it with this woman if you want to.

 

[Troubles]

Thanks a lot.

The trouble is that she don't think I like her...
How should I show it ? I am a bit shy. Everyone is looking a me while I am talking to her because I know I am the hottest guy in the office, and she is the hottest girl in the office...
Should I just tell her best female friend that I like her...
(Talk or write a note?)
It's seems that she's afraid to get hurt and trying to aviod to see or talk to me, everytime I go and try to chat with her, she just find some excuse to go away. And she's now aways talking on her mobile and seems to be busy...
Hard to approach.
Any advice ? suggestions ?

Two ways of showing her that I like her and get respond at once...
1) give her a note
This will what I am going to write to her...And may give it to her/ her friend

When I 1st met you I am afraid to talk to you
When I 1st talk to you I am afraid to like you
Now that I like you, I am afraid to tell you...
Now it's your time to choose
I should be 'dead' or 'alive'...
My mobile no..

2) Talk to her friend and tell that I like her, and see what should I do...

Any suggestsions ?
What should I do ??

 

[Tango-Kid]

No notes. Why you have to tell her you like her? Date her.

 

[Troubles]

I am afraid that too sudden and freak her out...And she don't know how to deal with it and just say 'no' and remember she a bit angry of me because of the rumor (please read tricky tricky post) I need to calm her down 1st....Slowly slowly not to surpise her....

 

[DJmonster]

Don't tell her you like her. Don't tell her friend you like her. Don't write a note saying you like her.

Show her you like her by getting her number. If you don't think she'll give it to you because she thinks you're a player, then do what Tails says, and tell her that the rumors aren't true, and that she shouldn't judge you before she gets to know you better.

Never confess your feelings to a woman, you'll scare her off. Show her you're interested by taking action.

 

[Troubles]

I need an excuse to get her no....
Remember these points :
1) We work on different department....
2) She's hot, ie, lots of guys are kissing her a$$
3) She's angry with me + her friends + try to avoid me, therefore we did't see much
4) She don't think i like her

How should do I get her no ? (What excuse ?)
When ? (I front of her friends ? When she's alone ?)
Hey, and yea, she's angry (Steaming, I can feel her tears in her eyes is almost coming out when I last saw her 2 days ago. When she see me now she just run away !)

 

[Life-Trainee]

If she didn't like you at all she wouldn't be upset/angry over a silly rumor. Go talk to her while she's alone. If she brings up the rumor tell her it isn't true. I would show absolutely no sign that the rumor had any effect.

 

[MrBond007]

I found out a good way to make sure very attractive women you know a little will take good notice of you:

When you are walking in a crowded area and shes in the way just tell her : "Out of my way" instead of the "oh please step aside little princess". Make sure to let her know she`s nothing to you.

Not nothing as in you do not care, nothing as in an innate unexistant spec of dust that doesnt deserve any special treatment.

 

[Troubles]

Something I forgot to tell...
I heard that she talk to her friends about me...
She said she don't think I like her...She think that if I like her I would told her that I like her...And right, she know my personality is straight forward, but she don't know not in this case....
And I know she might change her target to someone else...
I need to sort it out quick....ie quick solutions to break the ice and go out with her...

 

[Troubles]

Now, I saw a guy take her to work yesterday....
Should I really talk to her friends about it now ??
Will it be too late ?
What should I do ?

 

[DEKKA]

feel her boobies

 

[Troubles]

I need to make my move ASAP to let her know that I like her... how ?

 

[DEKKA]

finger her

 

[DJmonster]

First of all, calm down. You are caring way too much about how this turns out. You probably shouldn't date a woman from work anyway.



If you can tell she's upset with you, then, yes, you probably should calm her down. Definitely better to isolate her. Try and talk to her alone. Confidently approach her and tell her that you noticed she seems upset with you. Get her to tell you why she is upset (don't make verbal assumptions). She'll feel better towards you if you can get her to admit that there is something bothering her. Then, you can tell her the rumors aren't true, and proceed to get her phone #. And why should you need an excuse to get her number? Just tell her you'd like to get together with her sometime and get to know her better.

Get her to admit that she's upset with you, and tell you why. This will break the ice, and diffuse her negative feelings.

 

[flirty_intentions]

please dont write stuff like " dead or alive " and all that, you will come out as a really desperate guy, and even if by chance she starts talking to you again, she will always have the upper hand.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by Tails
say: "look, there's some rumors going on about me and i know it's effecting us, but it's all lies. i don't have to apologize to you or anyone because it's not true. that's all i can say. i enjoy talking to you and i like you, but if you don't believe me, then that's your problem and i can't do anything about it."

Yes or just hand her your balls and tell her to suck them, will work just as good.