Unforsaken
Don Juan
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Your bending the rules for her. I hope you notice that. Your cutting slack, because she has a b/f. In other words, your deciding with your heart not your mind.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Tricky situation
- Thread starter silverwex
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Your bending the rules for her. I hope you notice that. Your cutting slack, because she has a b/f. In other words, your deciding with your heart not your mind.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PuertoRican_Lover
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A girl who has a boyfriend said this to a guy whom she is cheating with!!
The cheating ho wants your loyalty!? Huh!!!
Of course she wants you to only SMS - she can read them in silence and then delete them without her man knowing that he has a liar and a hor for a g/f!!
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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Listen man, you can't ever drop your game and act AFC even for a second unless you've been dating the broad for a couple of months and trust her completly. Even then it's a bad idea to do it.
I know some guys will find a girl they really like and refuse to game her at all out of respect. They will think she's nice or sweet or some other thing like that and to reward that behaviour, they will act a little AFCish in order to make her feel comfortable. This is a classic rookie mistake. Never drop your game. If you really like a girl, you will game her just the same as some girl you only wanna sleep with - at least for the first 2 months.
What you said was good, except for the "u wont b sorry" part. That part of the quote made it seem like you were trying too hard to let the girl know she will have a good time. It's called desperate salesmenship. The harder a salesman tries to convince you something is good for you, the more suspicious you will be. Think about it.
Good luck.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
Mindovermatter:
Thanks for the great reply.
To tell ya the truth, something just hit me while reading your post:
I act AFC-ish while texting a girl but while Im actually in her company im DJ through and through!
I know that above statement is hard to believe after youve been reading this post but its the truth. I was C+F with her, i teased her, i joked about with her, i made her laugh and I got a MASSIVE amount of kino in on her (kissing all the way up the inside of her leg til i reached the top...!)
THe only thing is that i wont see her for another 2 weeks so the only way to communicate with her is via SMS
But once i see her in the flesh ill be the DJ i love to be!
thoughts?
Thanks for the great reply.
To tell ya the truth, something just hit me while reading your post:
I act AFC-ish while texting a girl but while Im actually in her company im DJ through and through!
I know that above statement is hard to believe after youve been reading this post but its the truth. I was C+F with her, i teased her, i joked about with her, i made her laugh and I got a MASSIVE amount of kino in on her (kissing all the way up the inside of her leg til i reached the top...!)
THe only thing is that i wont see her for another 2 weeks so the only way to communicate with her is via SMS
But once i see her in the flesh ill be the DJ i love to be!
thoughts?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
Silverwex, for God's sake, stop texting. I know it is popular in the UK/Ireland, which is precisely the reason you SHOULDN'T be doing it. Girls have got into the habit of constant texting, and expecting a reply immediately. I
It's just another method of controlling AFC men. If you meet someone you like, get their number, SPEAK to them, set up a date and leave it. No 'how r u?' messages etc etc.
If a woman is interested, this will drive her crazy with desire because you are being unavailable and causing her emotional rollercoaster to go into overdrive ('why isn't he texting me????'). It shows you are independent and don't need constant contact.
It sounds like this woman wants assurance that you're there waiting for her should she ditch this other guy. Just show you've got other options and are not waiting around.
If it doesn't work - who cares. She probably just wants an AFC under her thumb, so just move on.
It's just another method of controlling AFC men. If you meet someone you like, get their number, SPEAK to them, set up a date and leave it. No 'how r u?' messages etc etc.
If a woman is interested, this will drive her crazy with desire because you are being unavailable and causing her emotional rollercoaster to go into overdrive ('why isn't he texting me????'). It shows you are independent and don't need constant contact.
It sounds like this woman wants assurance that you're there waiting for her should she ditch this other guy. Just show you've got other options and are not waiting around.
If it doesn't work - who cares. She probably just wants an AFC under her thumb, so just move on.