"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Tricky situation with girl

GetTrippy

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Okay well basically this girl is really feeling me after about 6 days of kind of talking. We weren't even talking to each other before these days and she came up to me at a school event and was like I'm gonna be her boyfriend for the day. I'm like cool, whatever, not really paying any mind to it. I guess she started catching feelings after a close friend of mine said we make a cute couple and should go together.

Fast forwarding to a few days ago, one of her friends came up to me and was like do I like her and do I want to talk to her and I'm like sure, I have nothing to lose, might as well try it out and she told her I guess. Well later that day she came up and kissed me which I didn't really mind. But the next day we are just full blown making out and flirting heavily.

Fast forward to today, we kissed a few times and all that and then she says she wants to show me something and she shows me this long, detailed poem that she made that spells my name out and has a description for each letter.
Then...... I get to the bottom and it reads out "I Love You" and has a description for each letter. I of course didn't say I love you back and excused myself to go to a different area. She wasn't phased that I didn't say it back but I'm just really confused that after 6 days she made and said that. I also am hearing from different people saying she said that we talk and then I'm hearing people that say she said we are gf and bf which is the real problem since I have no intention of being official any time soon. How would you go about this? I was going to handle this myself but I just want a true Don Juan's input.
 

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She's clearly into you. Just take it at whatever pace you want. Don't worry about it so much. You don't have to let her decide how fast to do certain things or to put labels places. When you tell her, whatever you tell her, be confident in telling her, don't sound wishy-washy about it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cashew said:
She's clearly into you. Just take it at whatever pace you want. Don't worry about it so much. You don't have to let her decide how fast to do certain things or to put labels places. When you tell her, whatever you tell her, be confident in telling her, don't sound wishy-washy about it.
Thanks. Yeah now that I see this it is kind of immature but I usually **** around with girls and this would be my second time as far as going this far in a relationship and I am clueless. My apologies again.
 
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