"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay well basically this girl is really feeling me after about 6 days of kind of talking. We weren't even talking to each other before these days and she came up to me at a school event and was like I'm gonna be her boyfriend for the day. I'm like cool, whatever, not really paying any mind to it. I guess she started catching feelings after a close friend of mine said we make a cute couple and should go together.

Fast forwarding to a few days ago, one of her friends came up to me and was like do I like her and do I want to talk to her and I'm like sure, I have nothing to lose, might as well try it out and she told her I guess. Well later that day she came up and kissed me which I didn't really mind. But the next day we are just full blown making out and flirting heavily.

Fast forward to today, we kissed a few times and all that and then she says she wants to show me something and she shows me this long, detailed poem that she made that spells my name out and has a description for each letter.
Then...... I get to the bottom and it reads out "I Love You" and has a description for each letter. I of course didn't say I love you back and excused myself to go to a different area. She wasn't phased that I didn't say it back but I'm just really confused that after 6 days she made and said that. I also am hearing from different people saying she said that we talk and then I'm hearing people that say she said we are gf and bf which is the real problem since I have no intention of being official any time soon. How would you go about this? I was going to handle this myself but I just want a true Don Juan's input.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's clearly into you. Just take it at whatever pace you want. Don't worry about it so much. You don't have to let her decide how fast to do certain things or to put labels places. When you tell her, whatever you tell her, be confident in telling her, don't sound wishy-washy about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cashew said:
She's clearly into you. Just take it at whatever pace you want. Don't worry about it so much. You don't have to let her decide how fast to do certain things or to put labels places. When you tell her, whatever you tell her, be confident in telling her, don't sound wishy-washy about it.
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Thanks. Yeah now that I see this it is kind of immature but I usually **** around with girls and this would be my second time as far as going this far in a relationship and I am clueless. My apologies again.
 
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