"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tricky situation - date with sister of former AFC :O

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So I went for a beer with my buddy in the city we live in.
Guess what, the table next to us, the stunning little sister of the girl I was the biggest AFC with ever.
I fought over her, I declared her my love, I tried for years but I was a fat AFC those days. I worked out, learned and fell with a lot of ups and downs, and developed myself big time with women in the last 5 years. I f8cked the best friend of my former AFC, no contact now.

Her little sister (22 years old im 25) was sitting next to my table in the bar. She started to chat me up and we ended smoking a cigarette and her moving to our table with her friend. So we had fun big time for 1.5 hours and she asked us to join her for a techno party this saturday near our city. But my friend declined since his gf is sick so we ended up planning to go together. I offered to pick her up from central station and funning around about staying up until the first train arrives or bringing her home but she said she'll fix that her brother dropps her off. I told HER to get my number. I do this more often lateley because it will really tell me the girl's interest level. Lot of girls that I can't reach out to because I gave MY number end up in a date and sometimes sex so obviousley if she doesn't reach out for the party anymore she has no interest.
But then again she was really making plans to get together for fun parties.

So like I said we had a fun laugh and time it was great.
Anyway we took her friend home and took her to the central station. At the station she bought 2 tickets for the party for us so we are set for this saturday.

At the station she asked my friend if he couldn't join with his gf again and she ordered the tickets online.( didnt see that she said it)

So I think she mus tknow I was a big AFC with her sister. But she has beef with her sister and doesn't speak to her for 6 months now they kinda hate eachother now.

Should I proceed like any other chick? Go to the party, have fun and escalate?
IOIS: After the bar she really walked very close to me like a gf does to her bf. She was really staring me down and giving eye contact with flirting etc etc etc.

If she doesnt reach out 0 interest, if she does proceed with caution because of my AFC history with her sister she sure knows about?

Give me your thoughts bros
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You fvcked her bestfriend and now may have a chance to fvck her sister? Go for it, nothing to fuss about.
 

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She's showing interest. Go for it.
You do not know how it will play out right now, but why would you not explore the chance? Maybe she was always sweet on you and didn't show it because of her sister? Maybe she just wants to bang you because of her sister. Either way, I smell win win.

Explore
 

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She hates her sister, her sister knows you and you have upped your game big time. This is the perfect double revenge setup.

Go for it, but expect it to be short term.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Send me a screenshot on whatsapp with the tickets for the party. We on the ride
 

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Omfg she brings her friend but she reserved the ticket for me
 

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Handled evertyhing like a dj. Knowledge is key. She likes me a lot. We made out 5 times and she texts me right after i dropp her off. Who would guess i would dj the sister of my former afc girl.
 

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She hates her sister, her sister knows you and you have upped your game big time. This is the perfect double revenge setup.

Go for it, but expect it to be short term.
It was all a great succes with her sister check my new thread. Im very curious buddy. Why should I expect it to be short term?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Update:

Texted her today to arrange a second date and have drinks.

Her: Hey yes sure!
Me: Thursday and Friday work for me you?
Her: Im very busy with work and everything. (its legit because she told me that the first day we met, that she doesn't have time for nothing anymore)
Her: Ill get back to you okay.
Her: I have time saturday night but maybe im going to *nameofcity we both go out too regularly.
Me: Okay, its better to pick a day when you have more time.
Her: What are your plans for christmas evening?
Me: Going to have dinner at family in *nameofcity then im free.
Her: Okay
Her: Did you make a video of us (on our partydate) ?
Me: why?
Her: well my friend said that :p
Me: ye made a snapchat
Her: yes:p

She asks that because she knows I have her sister on snapchat too and she could see that, read my thread to understand whats up.

So this is not the best of what i expected.. thinking about NC until she reaches out
 

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Update:

Texted her today to arrange a second date and have drinks.

Her: Hey yes sure!
Me: Thursday and Friday work for me you?
Her: Im very busy with work and everything. (its legit because she told me that the first day we met, that she doesn't have time for nothing anymore)
Her: Ill get back to you okay.
Her: I have time saturday night but maybe im going to *nameofcity we both go out too regularly.
Me: Okay, its better to pick a day when you have more time.
Her: What are your plans for christmas evening?
Me: Going to have dinner at family in *nameofcity then im free.
Her: Okay
Her: Did you make a video of us (on our partydate) ?
Me: why?
Her: well my friend said that :p
Me: ye made a snapchat
Her: yes:p

She asks that because she knows I have her sister on snapchat too and she could see that, read my thread to understand whats up.

So this is not the best of what i expected.. thinking about NC until she reaches out
2 things:

1.) Have you smashed this chick yet?

2.) Anything but a "yes" is a no. She didnt give you a clear yes and she really didnt counter offer.

Since you have hung out with her before, I would wait it out a couple days and see if she hits you up. If she doesnt, send her a "Hi" in a week and see what type of response you get.

Do. Not. Chase.........or you will be AFC all over again, this time with the little sister.
 

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No s3x yet. threads closed because I went on a succesfull date with her, see my other thread if your interested
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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