"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tricky situation - date with sister of former AFC :O

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So I went for a beer with my buddy in the city we live in.
Guess what, the table next to us, the stunning little sister of the girl I was the biggest AFC with ever.
I fought over her, I declared her my love, I tried for years but I was a fat AFC those days. I worked out, learned and fell with a lot of ups and downs, and developed myself big time with women in the last 5 years. I f8cked the best friend of my former AFC, no contact now.

Her little sister (22 years old im 25) was sitting next to my table in the bar. She started to chat me up and we ended smoking a cigarette and her moving to our table with her friend. So we had fun big time for 1.5 hours and she asked us to join her for a techno party this saturday near our city. But my friend declined since his gf is sick so we ended up planning to go together. I offered to pick her up from central station and funning around about staying up until the first train arrives or bringing her home but she said she'll fix that her brother dropps her off. I told HER to get my number. I do this more often lateley because it will really tell me the girl's interest level. Lot of girls that I can't reach out to because I gave MY number end up in a date and sometimes sex so obviousley if she doesn't reach out for the party anymore she has no interest.
But then again she was really making plans to get together for fun parties.

So like I said we had a fun laugh and time it was great.
Anyway we took her friend home and took her to the central station. At the station she bought 2 tickets for the party for us so we are set for this saturday.

At the station she asked my friend if he couldn't join with his gf again and she ordered the tickets online.( didnt see that she said it)

So I think she mus tknow I was a big AFC with her sister. But she has beef with her sister and doesn't speak to her for 6 months now they kinda hate eachother now.

Should I proceed like any other chick? Go to the party, have fun and escalate?
IOIS: After the bar she really walked very close to me like a gf does to her bf. She was really staring me down and giving eye contact with flirting etc etc etc.

If she doesnt reach out 0 interest, if she does proceed with caution because of my AFC history with her sister she sure knows about?

Give me your thoughts bros
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You fvcked her bestfriend and now may have a chance to fvck her sister? Go for it, nothing to fuss about.
 

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She's showing interest. Go for it.
You do not know how it will play out right now, but why would you not explore the chance? Maybe she was always sweet on you and didn't show it because of her sister? Maybe she just wants to bang you because of her sister. Either way, I smell win win.

Explore
 

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She hates her sister, her sister knows you and you have upped your game big time. This is the perfect double revenge setup.

Go for it, but expect it to be short term.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Send me a screenshot on whatsapp with the tickets for the party. We on the ride
 

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Omfg she brings her friend but she reserved the ticket for me
 

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Handled evertyhing like a dj. Knowledge is key. She likes me a lot. We made out 5 times and she texts me right after i dropp her off. Who would guess i would dj the sister of my former afc girl.
 

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She hates her sister, her sister knows you and you have upped your game big time. This is the perfect double revenge setup.

Go for it, but expect it to be short term.
It was all a great succes with her sister check my new thread. Im very curious buddy. Why should I expect it to be short term?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update:

Texted her today to arrange a second date and have drinks.

Her: Hey yes sure!
Me: Thursday and Friday work for me you?
Her: Im very busy with work and everything. (its legit because she told me that the first day we met, that she doesn't have time for nothing anymore)
Her: Ill get back to you okay.
Her: I have time saturday night but maybe im going to *nameofcity we both go out too regularly.
Me: Okay, its better to pick a day when you have more time.
Her: What are your plans for christmas evening?
Me: Going to have dinner at family in *nameofcity then im free.
Her: Okay
Her: Did you make a video of us (on our partydate) ?
Me: why?
Her: well my friend said that :p
Me: ye made a snapchat
Her: yes:p

She asks that because she knows I have her sister on snapchat too and she could see that, read my thread to understand whats up.

So this is not the best of what i expected.. thinking about NC until she reaches out
 

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Update:

Texted her today to arrange a second date and have drinks.

Her: Hey yes sure!
Me: Thursday and Friday work for me you?
Her: Im very busy with work and everything. (its legit because she told me that the first day we met, that she doesn't have time for nothing anymore)
Her: Ill get back to you okay.
Her: I have time saturday night but maybe im going to *nameofcity we both go out too regularly.
Me: Okay, its better to pick a day when you have more time.
Her: What are your plans for christmas evening?
Me: Going to have dinner at family in *nameofcity then im free.
Her: Okay
Her: Did you make a video of us (on our partydate) ?
Me: why?
Her: well my friend said that :p
Me: ye made a snapchat
Her: yes:p

She asks that because she knows I have her sister on snapchat too and she could see that, read my thread to understand whats up.

So this is not the best of what i expected.. thinking about NC until she reaches out
2 things:

1.) Have you smashed this chick yet?

2.) Anything but a "yes" is a no. She didnt give you a clear yes and she really didnt counter offer.

Since you have hung out with her before, I would wait it out a couple days and see if she hits you up. If she doesnt, send her a "Hi" in a week and see what type of response you get.

Do. Not. Chase.........or you will be AFC all over again, this time with the little sister.
 

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No s3x yet. threads closed because I went on a succesfull date with her, see my other thread if your interested
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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