"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Tricky Questions

Diaoz

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2003
Messages
133
Reaction score
0
Ok, I think I still don't have the DJ thinking patterns and concept yet so I'd appreciate if you guys can give me the concept behind the anwsers to these questions as well. Oh, and please add in questions of yours.

1.) Have you waited long for me?
2.) Why do you love me?
3.) What I like about her?
4.) Why do guys lie?
5.) Most touching act of hers.

I've still got quite alot of these queries and will post them as I recall them. thks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Knicknack

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2003
Messages
602
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Diaoz
Ok, I think I still don't have the DJ thinking patterns and concept yet so I'd appreciate if you guys can give me the concept behind the anwsers to these questions as well. Oh, and please add in questions of yours.

1.) Have you waited long for me?
2.) Why do you love me?
3.) What I like about her?
4.) Why do guys lie?
5.) Most touching act of hers.

I've still got quite alot of these queries and will post them as I recall them. thks
1. "yeah... i've let my parents know about us as well... we are going to get married soon too..."

2. "cause you look good in tight jeans..."

3. "you can cook, clean, and make a lot of money so i can sit at home and look after the tv"

4. "guys lie?????!!!!!!"

5. if she's touching you she wants you. you need to learn how to respond to her touching by gently touching her in return. i like to touch their arms, waist, shoulders, and neck. this usually leads to making out.
 

HuuBinh

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2002
Messages
292
Reaction score
2
Location
ATL
when these questions are asked, the key is not to give her the expected answer. On top of my head, my answers would be:
1. of course i have, about 1 minute.
2. because of the sex.
3. your looks.
4. to get what they want.
 
Top