"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tricks to get over HB10 mind-blank-idis?

yuppaz

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What's up again folks,

I am doing better and better, but still have some issues with blanking or goofing around the really hot girls. Are there any tricks to just remembering they are just normal girls or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it? :crazy:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cockerdumbnuts

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a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
 

VdoubleR

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yuppaz said:
...or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it?
Being around them more often has definitely helped me. But, even if you were to be around them everyday a "mind blank" will happen eventually.

Here are some things I do to prevent that situation:

a) Talk to them as if you've spoke to them before.
b) Imagine that you're talking to a less attractive female.
c) Breath a little deeper to calm you down a bit until you realize she IS just a normal girl.

Good luck and hope I've helped.

-VdoubleR
 

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.
lol

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.
ROFL. That seriously would send me into fits of laughter.

3. imagine them with a bald head.
I dunno....

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
Have to disagree with that. People notice it if you look them directly in the eye. And that's a sexy thing to women if you do that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
haha this works well. Remember, they are still the little girls that you would pull there hair , and chase in the playground in in elementary school, except they have fat deposits on there chest and have more estrogen. Assume attraction, and remember that if you don't stand up and approach them and show them that you are the Great Catch, you will not make there ladyflowers wet.:cool:
 
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