"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tricks to get over HB10 mind-blank-idis?

yuppaz

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What's up again folks,

I am doing better and better, but still have some issues with blanking or goofing around the really hot girls. Are there any tricks to just remembering they are just normal girls or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it? :crazy:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
 

VdoubleR

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yuppaz said:
...or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it?
Being around them more often has definitely helped me. But, even if you were to be around them everyday a "mind blank" will happen eventually.

Here are some things I do to prevent that situation:

a) Talk to them as if you've spoke to them before.
b) Imagine that you're talking to a less attractive female.
c) Breath a little deeper to calm you down a bit until you realize she IS just a normal girl.

Good luck and hope I've helped.

-VdoubleR
 

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.
lol

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.
ROFL. That seriously would send me into fits of laughter.

3. imagine them with a bald head.
I dunno....

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
Have to disagree with that. People notice it if you look them directly in the eye. And that's a sexy thing to women if you do that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
haha this works well. Remember, they are still the little girls that you would pull there hair , and chase in the playground in in elementary school, except they have fat deposits on there chest and have more estrogen. Assume attraction, and remember that if you don't stand up and approach them and show them that you are the Great Catch, you will not make there ladyflowers wet.:cool:
 
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