"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tricks to get over HB10 mind-blank-idis?

yuppaz

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What's up again folks,

I am doing better and better, but still have some issues with blanking or goofing around the really hot girls. Are there any tricks to just remembering they are just normal girls or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it? :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
 

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yuppaz said:
...or do I just need to be around them / hit on them enough to get over it?
Being around them more often has definitely helped me. But, even if you were to be around them everyday a "mind blank" will happen eventually.

Here are some things I do to prevent that situation:

a) Talk to them as if you've spoke to them before.
b) Imagine that you're talking to a less attractive female.
c) Breath a little deeper to calm you down a bit until you realize she IS just a normal girl.

Good luck and hope I've helped.

-VdoubleR
 

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.
lol

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.
ROFL. That seriously would send me into fits of laughter.

3. imagine them with a bald head.
I dunno....

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
Have to disagree with that. People notice it if you look them directly in the eye. And that's a sexy thing to women if you do that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****erdumbnuts said:
a few thing that i do that have helped me;

1. imagine them playing with a dildo to the thought of you.

2. imagine them taking a huge sh*t.

3. imagine them with a bald head.

Also if you're having problems with eye contact with, just look at there eyebrows. It'll seem as if you're looking them in the eye.
haha this works well. Remember, they are still the little girls that you would pull there hair , and chase in the playground in in elementary school, except they have fat deposits on there chest and have more estrogen. Assume attraction, and remember that if you don't stand up and approach them and show them that you are the Great Catch, you will not make there ladyflowers wet.:cool:
 
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