"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Triangle" Method (AKA 3 Chicks at the Same Time)

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Great post. This is the situation that everyone on this board should be having.

couple of critiques:
rule 3. My current B was interested in me for awhile but I was commited and kept her as a P. When I regained my freedom I sat around with her still a P and found a new C. After awhile I went straight from P to B with her. I've done this before too so I'm a little confused by why you think it isn't worth doing. Now that I'm thinking about it I would say that if anything were to happen with a couple of my current P's it would only be as FB.

My only other critique is that in the future you should put posts like this in the tips section. By the time I wake up this will be bumped to the third page by the what would a "DJ" do posts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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^^^ well we'll just have to keep it up here.

Also, I can see where you can move a potential to bootycall easily. But take in stride that this is meant as a novice/advanced beginner method and that move is subject to many problems that could arise. I am not saying that it cannot be done, but just make sure you know what you are doing because a move too early will sacrifice her for any of the three categories.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
Great post. This is the situation that everyone on this board should be having.
Did you read that "Plain & Simple"?...lol I had to
 

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Well it only made it onto page two.

Yeah B is always the one that gives me the biggest headaches and is the least worth it. It really doesn't matter were I've pulled my B crew from they are always the ones with the shortest lifespans. Not that it matters really but that is why I like to keep some P-B's as well as P-C's in the P crew.
 

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somehow this managed to wind up on like page 144. I think this should be bumped up to the top again. Putting yourself in this situation is simpler than expected. Anything less is short-changing yourself.

Best of luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by belividere
somehow this managed to wind up on like page 144. I think this should be bumped up to the top again. Putting yourself in this situation is simpler than expected. Anything less is short-changing yourself.

Best of luck.
Damn 144!? Maybe we can get this moved to "Tips"?
 
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