"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Treating women like little girls

Mjazz

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In an article Pook says to treat women like little girls, I dont really get what he means by that. Any examples? Can any one elaborate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jay Jay

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Tease em, tickle them, wrestle them, make fun of what they say, constantly joke, don't take anything they say too seriously, always be having fun and be very gentle with them coz they can get hurt easily and then start sulking.
 

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Mjazz said:
In an article Pook says to treat women like little girls, I dont really get what he means by that. Any examples? Can any one elaborate.
Its because MANY "women" dont act mature and end up having hissy fits and childish tantrums. Thats why Pook wrote that they often shouldnt be treated like an adult. Its also prevents them from disrespecting you and walking over you like a carpet (often for no good reason or something illogical).
 

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it's really weird but when my woman does something good like cleaning up or doing laundry she always uses the statement. i was a good girl today. i did this and that and i reward her. if she acts out of line she gets no attention. she then follows up with an apology and i then say alright.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Snow Plowman

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I'm assuming its like RSD Tim's way of thinking every girl is a 5 year old.

You don't give a fuk what any girl thinks about you. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad. You don't give a fuk. Also you don't hold any logical conversation with them its nothing but random, playful, dumb sh!t. When you think like that their is no way that you could run out of things to say because there is so much stuff you can just say. One min your talking about floors then out of no where start talking about tires.
 
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