"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Treating women like little girls
- Thread starter Mjazz
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its because MANY "women" dont act mature and end up having hissy fits and childish tantrums. Thats why Pook wrote that they often shouldnt be treated like an adult. Its also prevents them from disrespecting you and walking over you like a carpet (often for no good reason or something illogical).Mjazz said:In an article Pook says to treat women like little girls, I dont really get what he means by that. Any examples? Can any one elaborate.
insanity
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You don't give a fuk what any girl thinks about you. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad. You don't give a fuk. Also you don't hold any logical conversation with them its nothing but random, playful, dumb sh!t. When you think like that their is no way that you could run out of things to say because there is so much stuff you can just say. One min your talking about floors then out of no where start talking about tires.