That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The right word is Authority. Its an alpha male characteristic. Girls will naturally treat you with respect. You need to keep a power position.. doesn't mean you insult her or treat her like ****.DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
low self-esteem women love it.DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
A little anger to spice up a relationship?DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes, studies show some women who are abused still remain loyal to their boyfriends. I'm not advocating this, just stating the facts. There is something twisted about this, but it is a fact. And yes it is usually LSE women who have this strange love for their abusive boyfriends.DonJuan11 said:A little anger to spice up a relationship?
"Listen girl, if you don't do what I say, I will beat the crap out of you."
"Oh you turn me on with those words, let me take off my pants and make love to you."