You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The right word is Authority. Its an alpha male characteristic. Girls will naturally treat you with respect. You need to keep a power position.. doesn't mean you insult her or treat her like ****.DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
low self-esteem women love it.DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
A little anger to spice up a relationship?DarthAngel707 said:I'm normally respectful and c&f towards women, but I noticed some of my friends tell me that women like it more when you treat them like sh*t. It's so twisted that these girls actually start to feel more respect for you instead of trying to run away or call the cops.
Whats the consensus here, a little anger good to spice up the relationship?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes, studies show some women who are abused still remain loyal to their boyfriends. I'm not advocating this, just stating the facts. There is something twisted about this, but it is a fact. And yes it is usually LSE women who have this strange love for their abusive boyfriends.DonJuan11 said:A little anger to spice up a relationship?
"Listen girl, if you don't do what I say, I will beat the crap out of you."
"Oh you turn me on with those words, let me take off my pants and make love to you."