"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Treating girls

Jerry Maguire

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Do you think that all women deserve to be treated the same?
I find this difficult, because of my varying degrees of respect for them.
I have no problem being 'DJ' with a common slvt, but I feel sleazy and demeaning when acting the same way towards a girl that I respect.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being a DJ has nothing to do with working on sluts.

Is my understanding that the more you like a women the more money you want to spend on her? If this is your thinking then you are doomed.
 

Jerry Maguire

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hm, no, I feel that when I'm using DJ skills, I'm not being myself, I'm just using them.
When I actually respect girls then there's no way I'd want to, or could, let myself do that. I'd feel the need to be myself.
 
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