"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Treating girls

Jerry Maguire

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Do you think that all women deserve to be treated the same?
I find this difficult, because of my varying degrees of respect for them.
I have no problem being 'DJ' with a common slvt, but I feel sleazy and demeaning when acting the same way towards a girl that I respect.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being a DJ has nothing to do with working on sluts.

Is my understanding that the more you like a women the more money you want to spend on her? If this is your thinking then you are doomed.
 

Jerry Maguire

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hm, no, I feel that when I'm using DJ skills, I'm not being myself, I'm just using them.
When I actually respect girls then there's no way I'd want to, or could, let myself do that. I'd feel the need to be myself.
 
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