Ok, what pook meant by that is that you should not be AFC around them, you should treat them as if they were your guy friend, your good guy friend. She's not special person, and until she proven herself to you, she isn't. Treat her like you'd treat your guy friend, that's all it means. (VS. a pretty chick AFC meets and his ears start flapping like on a retard)
Now, you get these WTF responses here is because of who replied to you have no idea of pook, he's in DJ bible, means they never read it. And you got one female, which gave her perspective on things, which is very similar to the actual meaning of what you are asking and what pook trying to say.
I suggest, since you're a smart Asian guy, search over network for David DeAngelo, there are plenty of PDF and movies you could read and watch. It will set you much more streighter than DJ Bible, which you should read too. All PUA material is pretty much the same, it's for you to get into PUA state of mind, they aren't techniques.
