"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Treat it like a Game!

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Here's another easy one to help take some of the load off of a DJ's struggle to talk to women.

Today, I went up to a girl I'll probably have sex with soon, who works at a pool hall and asked for change. Only I asked, "Hey, will you do me for a dollar?"

She said nothing and instantly turned red. She was almost in tears.

There is a uncomplicated moral to this story:

Treat it Like a Game!

It's been said a million times, but you only live once...blah...carpe diem...blah...blah....blah....

But more than that...have fun while sarging. Make it a point to be outrageous when you feel like it!

In fact, sometimes intentionally breaking the rules is just fine! So many DJ's take themselves way too seriously!

Try your best not to think..."I have to say the right thing and do the right thing to get the *****". These are initial signs of WEAKNESS and being a TOOL.

A simple exercise is to intentionally say something so utterly dumb in your next social meeting, that everyone falls into tears.

That's right.

Break the "DJ cool rules."

Or tell a girl that you want to have a one night stand....now. Simple off the wall type **** works wonders...at least for me.

And I suspect that many over zealous DJ's could work the same magic by breaking the rules.

To cut it short, remember that

It's all a game...so have fun and PLAY...!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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