"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Treat it like a Game!

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Don Juan
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Here's another easy one to help take some of the load off of a DJ's struggle to talk to women.

Today, I went up to a girl I'll probably have sex with soon, who works at a pool hall and asked for change. Only I asked, "Hey, will you do me for a dollar?"

She said nothing and instantly turned red. She was almost in tears.

There is a uncomplicated moral to this story:

Treat it Like a Game!

It's been said a million times, but you only live once...blah...carpe diem...blah...blah....blah....

But more than that...have fun while sarging. Make it a point to be outrageous when you feel like it!

In fact, sometimes intentionally breaking the rules is just fine! So many DJ's take themselves way too seriously!

Try your best not to think..."I have to say the right thing and do the right thing to get the *****". These are initial signs of WEAKNESS and being a TOOL.

A simple exercise is to intentionally say something so utterly dumb in your next social meeting, that everyone falls into tears.

That's right.

Break the "DJ cool rules."

Or tell a girl that you want to have a one night stand....now. Simple off the wall type **** works wonders...at least for me.

And I suspect that many over zealous DJ's could work the same magic by breaking the rules.

To cut it short, remember that

It's all a game...so have fun and PLAY...!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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